20 Ways to become a Winner

Here is a list of 20 Ways to improve yourself and your life, so you can feel like a Winner every day!

1.Take full personal Responsibility for every situation in your life
2.See yourself as self-employed no matter which job you have and see your boss as your client
3.Look into the Future instead of the Past
4.When building Persistence focus on your Outcome instead of the Process
5.Let go of Grudges because you can never achieve anything great with Negativity in you
6.After each Situation at work or home, think “What have I done right?”, then “What can I do better?”
7.Model yourself after the best people in your field - always compare yourself to the most successful people and find out what actions it takes (ask questions)

8.Educate yourself 30-60 Minutes each day and build expertise in your field
9.Every day do one thing more than you would usually do

10.Build self-discipline through Goal-setting, which will turn into self-esteem
11.Build on constructive habits through repetition and leverage

12.When trying to get rid of bad habits, tell yourself “just for today I will be good”

13.When building momentum for success, realize you only have to succeed the last time.
14.Train yourself to find one opportunity in the midst of struggle
15.On your to-do list, do the hard tasks first, then the easy fast ones
16.Never let anyone tell you what you can or cannot do - don't share your hopes and dreams with people who are not supportive

17.Always try to give a situation as much meaning as it needs - not more, not less

18.Assess the stories you tell yourself on what life and success is about - what did you learn when you were young?

19.Define for yourself one temporary measurable highest purpose that would make the biggest improvement in your overall life

20.Find out the one Skill that would make the biggest improvement for your life and focus your time on improving it

In the end improvement of life always comes back to the degree of personal Responsibility you take for every situation in your life, realizing that you are in control and relinquishing the negativity by minimizing your contact with negative people and input as well as changing your inner self-talk into the supportive inner voice it needs to be! Whichever point speaks to you the best here - get moving and start giving it a try!

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5 Ways on How to start your Day right

Happy Monday Morning!

I figure this would be an appropriate time to share a few ways on how to start your day the right way.

Most people underestimate the effect of starting the day with the right Morning Rituals. We’ve learned to eat healthy breakfasts but we have not yet understood that the right actions in the morning set the tone for the next 12 hours. If you fail to do the right things for yourself in the morning, you have higher chances of becoming a victim to fatigue, lack of productivity, arguments and negativity.

Don't ruin your chances for a great day!

If you start  your day right, I guarantee you will feel more awake, sharp, creative and get at least 30% more done on your To Do List.

Here are 5 Ways on how to start your Day right, so that you will go to bed amazed about how great you felt the whole day:

One Skill that can change Everything

Today ask yourself the question: “What would be the one Skill that, if I learned and mastered it, would make the biggest improvement on my Life right now?”

Whatever Skill comes to your mind - you should write it down in detail.

This is the Skill you should put your whole heart into from now on. Do whatever you need to to become a student of this Skill and educate and train yourself until you are excellent at it.

We usually know the Skills we need to acquire, but this exercise will help you to think specifically about the one ability that would create the biggest improvement to YOUR life. It could be anything from Time Management to learning a Language, learning a particular Management Skill or anything else you could possible imagine.

So write down your one Skill and do what you need in order to train it everyday at least a little bit. You will be amazed how this one Skill truly does make the biggest difference and how it makes the training you put in very worth while.

5 Ways to overcome Negativity

The reason we feel negative is usually because we believe something is out of our control. There’s a situation at work or home that we find particularly hard to accept. This can be because we’re unhappy with our own behavior or the behavior of others around us. At any rate we give a situation more meaning than it should have.


Here are 5 Ways to overcome Negativity in your Life:

Secrets to comparing Yourself

We often blame our own resources for not achieving excellence. People blame themselves for not being smart enough, not being strong enough or having a limiting environment. Surprisingly enough, those excuses are never the real reason we don’t get what we want. Many studies proofed that everyone has the ability to excel in at least one area in their life.

The real reason is usually that we compare ourselves with people who don’t succeed either. As long as we have another person who regularly fails or as long as we are better than we used to be, we don’t put in the work to becoming great.

It is human nature that we don’t naturally want get out of our ways to set new standards, however we feel amazing and exhilarated once we do.

How to stay excited about your Goals

We all know the feeling of getting really excited about a goal but then months later it seems unattainable. We become frustrated because what we once hoped for might now be out of reach. No matter if it’s about reaching a weight goal, running a distance, getting a certain amount of clients or performing better in another area of life. We start pushing those goals out of our head because the feeling of failure is too unbearable.

2 Strategies to reach Happiness

There are 2 basic Strategies you can choose from which will both increase your well-being and are applicable every day in every situation. Because of the nature of us as humans, there are two basic needs which drive fulfillment and happiness:

The first need is Growth. Whatever we do in work or family, we instinctively want to grow.  When we feel like we grow and get better at something we feel good about ourselves and our situation. We all want to get better at something and enjoy the benefits that excellence can give us. It gives us Pride and Satisfaction in our own character. On the other hand we feel unhappy when we are stuck in the same place, having to resign to our circumstances.